AI Summary
An older man shares life experience on why casual first-name friendships and meeting new people refresh your ideas, break routines, and expand your social network.
- Casual friendships on a first-name basis are valuable: they create more options like picnics, barbecues, and parties.
- Meeting new people makes your ideas more "mobile" — when you return to work, you see more of the map.
- Staying in the same routine with the same faces makes you stuck and agitated, like a prisoner's inner world.
- Even if you're alone, maximize social opportunities — talk to the bartender, be spontaneous.
- He suggests taking advantage of summer's "cosmic rhythms" (sun in Leo) to be outgoing and expressive.
- Tangent: he spots a man circling the parking lot planning to steal his car, and scares him off.
- Later he says skinny women can be attractive if they have facial symmetry, but he encourages being seen with athletic, curvy women.
Takeaway: get out of your routine and build a loose network of casual connections — spontaneous socializing refreshes your perspective and expands your options.
Transcript
God out talked to us took our numbers and went straight home didn't have a ounce of liquor or anything like that
He didn't check out more of the party. He had a quota to fill and
He fulfilled it and even your girl will be like wow we have other people to party with and other friends
And it's just beautiful thing to always have more network
They're like hey, we have a picnic here. We have a barbecue here. We have a you have so many more options
texting you and a lot of people don't like this because they're like, who's there?
This is kind of like a vague you know like I kind of first name basis friendships
That you love to form and I'm like yeah, I do I do look because that's what friendship is
It's a friendship is supposed to be ex you know why friendship is supposed to be extremely casual
So you can go back to work
Do you know why people meet up for a couple beers and they try and fit into each other schedules and
They try and make everything fun fun fun. Hey, let's not talk about politics is superstitious. Let's just go have fun
Do you know why people do that to take a load off?
I do it for other reasons. They're more I'd I'd say psychospheres was not just to be more magnetic it is because
There's something that happens to humans when they're adjusting their same
Circles of friends and can explain to you that but it's you don't get
And by the way, I didn't read this. I'm saying I'm an old man with a shit ton of life experience and there's something strange that happens
When you meet a bunch of new people
And you know them just you know on a beer basis. Let's say there's something that happens where your ideas become even more mobile
Everything you know you go home to your work desk
And you think you've been working on these ideas for eight years and then the ideas become even more mobile
You're like, oh, I'm good at what I'm doing
But there's like fresh life forces in meeting. I can't explain the astral atmosphere
I've just just just connecting with someone's aura right there on a first-name basis
There's something happens that it you go back to your work
You concentrate and you see more of the map
Whereas if you just stay in your rut and routine
Which is really that's what life is is in conquering the inner world right it is
Technically a routine for every human on earth
Not like think of a prisoner. How did they stay? How did they keep their inner world?
So the their unconscious doesn't pour out in a
Disasters way where they break into schizophrenia or something right they get into their routine and social environments and
Then they get kind of stuck and agitated because it's the same faces every day
And you know that happens to a lot of I already got a lot of small town
Students who are like yo bro, dude. This is tough. This is tough. This is tough
And for those people I recommend they really maximize
Yeah, the bartender the you know the social part of talking the bartender and all that's it at the bar stool
even if it means alone and
Really and remember this is like a summertime. It's like you know
How would a good with the how would a sexy bitch tell you and she'd say when the sun is in Leo, right?
She that's how sexy bitch would tell you this shit is they all have to go
Bespontaneous and stuff and it's like we want to take advantage of
These cosmic rhythms and I'm not talking about like you read a horoscope or any of that so we should I'm just saying
What's happening above you you're gonna see it in people's faces you're gonna see people
10 times more confident and totally out there and and
expressing every part of their
their life
Forces into the world and holy shit this got strong steel my car
Holy shit. I've never actually seen that he biked around it
Wow, I've never seen a crack it actually planning to steal my car
He biked around the whole parking lot and
Looked at me for far away thought I was oh he's coming back. I have to say something hold on
What the fuck what I have to scare them
There's no fucking way
Oh, love, oh, wow, I've never seen that I've seen them high
I've seen them being spooky and weird, but I've never seen them
Planning to steal because I'm in it. I'm in the darkness. So they didn't they didn't notice that I'm here
He has a hot crack it girlfriend holy shit
You know, it's so rare for us. Yeah, you know, I'ma just say it, bro
It's rare for a skinny woman to be attractive
But as long as her face has got some symmetry and some beauty going on we can get it
We can give an anorexic bitch a higher number
updated many anorexic girls I
Just never showed people because I was kind of like ashamed of them because I'm
Not that I'm superficial. I don't care who I'm seen with
Not that I don't really care that much. I care to some degree, but not that much
You know usually what I like is what every guy likes anyway, but
Why I encourage the fat ass
Bitches with a small waist and and good shape like a nice athletic shape why I encourage
Clips to be seen with those kind of girls is because I want that
That's what I want to promote into the world like a lot of people
Well, well, you have holes on your clips and it's like I want to promote women looking
Round on the butt round on the quads round on the hamstrings. I really want to promote that in the world
Because I know I'm gonna inherit
I'm you know, I'm more prepared more prepared
A lot of you guys think this ends you know this goes on man and you don't want
You know what you to incarnate where into a world where women are not looking correct like or up to you because everyone's gonna have different tastes too and it's like
We want that saturated look of like oh she looks like she's an explosive sprinter or something should like that
I think Donald Trump has great taste in women not from Melania, but he saw some like young girl at the golf course
And he's wow you're fit. You're fit, but he's really you know what he's thinking and even at his age
I just remember looking at her. I'm like is she hot because I always make fun of people when they say all those girls hot
I'm like I don't it's like that Sophie Reinhardt Sophia Reinhardt of the fuck. I'm like what she's a she looks weird
Not trying to be rude or anything. I'm just saying she look hot for an average person, but I don't think she's a superstar at all
But anyways Trump's pointing at this fucking girl saying that she's fit and she was a she was beautiful
She was glowing. She was laughing. She was feminine
And it was rare, you know and some of you guys could say oh she worked at
At a golf course that means she's like a terrible hole you can make that argument
But um, I like Trump's taste there, right? I really I really like that and I'm telling you guys right now. It's like
When you listen and when you listen to my advice, you're gonna notice that a lot of these girls are not
Your types you're getting numbers of women that you don't
Really you're not into you know a lot of most people you meet are not gonna be someone you're into but they actually introduce
you to someone who
In my experience for my clients is a lot a lot of guys meet their bitch out through a mutual
In my experience it no, it's usually me going after what I want
but
Every time I shake hands is some big business opportunity. I can't explain to you how good it is to meet people
And it's always like a year later a year later that person you met hits you up or emails you and you're like oh shit
I actually do I do want that whole lobby actually that's a great deal
That is a great deal. I actually oh your dad owns the whole building that's great and
I feel like we're entering these times where nobody talks to each other and
And bro, it's gonna get bad for a lot of you like 10 years can
ZOOP
Pass by and you're gonna be like well Zirk I haven't met enough people you know
Dude you had your chance many times you know most people
Most especially women you're meeting women
You say you do what I do right I took just tell them the truth so I don't look like a weirdo
I'll say I have a girlfriend but I want your numbers in case you guys are doing something that's fun
Go out and usually if you're told good looking guy they assume yeah bring your girl
They know and get jealous first meeting you they say yeah bring your girl bring you know do do it however you want to do it
Just increase the value of the party because people want larger incarnations around them and all that and
I know I don't think I have one podcast talking about meeting people
You know, I don't think I've ever encouraged meeting people because I just assume
You know, it's only clav that snaps me back into shape. I see some posts where he say
Low in head or something like that and I'm like oh wait a minute
He's not promoting
Low inhibition. He's pretty much saying that life
Moose forward when he meets people which some of the clips doesn't look like that sometimes it just looks like hell on earth like
clav will be around some like
Weird looking mils in a bar and I don't know you look at it and you're like that's the last thing I want to do like
That's the last thing I want to do in Miami
Why is he doing that?
And then I remember oh he's staying in rhythm like he's actually a smart kid you doesn't waste the year
Because you know you know you have a couple of years of meeting a bunch of people and then you don't have to really doing
anything much anymore
And a lot of you guys think that you know
Later in life you can do this do the later in life gets extremely hard your timetable
Gets you have no idea how tight your schedule get and I don't mean like
Well when you figure out your thinking style you're gonna be like oh the only I actually you know most people who email me
They say well I hate my thinking my thinking is trash or something's broken with me and I'm like
Now you don't hate you don't hate your thinking
Just go on vacation and see what you're thinking looks like when you're not around people
You know maybe you just go by the water and be alone and you know people will go go by the water be alone until they look whole
My thoughts are actually really sharp
And I'm like yeah dude I'm telling you everything you built up since the child is still in you
And it just get you have to see it like puddles
You have to see it like puddles every person you talk to is a puddle right? It's a ripple
That ripple bounces off you you bounce off it and
You could say it's a good thing, but it's actually a horrifying thing
Because you'll realize when you're alone you enjoy your thinking when you're around people you're
Deep asleep you don't even remember what you talked about with them and get this email all the time from people
I'm like you guys aren't really getting it. It's like
Growing up in life when you're 21 growing up in life means
Your schedule is sacred you cannot be bouncing off too many ripples off people
Now if you do
Make an intentional effort to meet someone because it's summertime and
And it's strange because a lot of people think this is like a mission. This is really casual, bro
It sounds like a mission because I'm making it a mission, but when you do it for the first time you
You'll see how casual it is and and it's so casual and it's so not
pussy
Obsessed, you know people go out to pick up trees. It's more like just to meet people
It's so fucking casual and real
That it's useful because when it's about pussy it turns into something very weird
And there's a fantasy component to you and your buddies going out and doing that and I get
I really cannot relate to the younger years, you know like when you guys are on hunt mode. I don't get that
I don't have hunt mode
Because I've done you know
At my age you don't have hunt mode like that like but I remember being your guys age where hunt mode met
meant every Friday Saturday
Sunday has to be
Bitches sucking dick and they have to be slutty they can't just be hard we'd get hard girls
But they weren't slutty and we'd hate them we'd all hate them
We know you talk to know you and we would have just give up on them
And because we all wanted it, you know, not to be rude
But we've got to talk for the boys it always has to sound like locker room talk because I do want to you know
If I get hit by a bus right now, right if I have something in the road hits me right now it kills me
At least you guys will be like
Is really good, you know when Zerka speaks there's no fad in the language. He's like really good
Right, so we have to make it locker locker room talk
We'd like sloppy hand jobs
With with with some tongue there
We that's what me and my boys used to like
Right
Well when I word it like that it sounds like we're giving a child listen man
Let's get a refocus. Can you guys hear me look on me look on me. All right, let's check this out
It wasn't enough
I because I heard I
It's cyclical when it's summertime you get this
Cycling energy of oh, I remember I've been here before right you get that and for me
I remember 21 22 23 to 24
These would be my like whole years where well I had the long
Well, it's still going on with the whole thing but
When I look at it from a hunt aspect, you know because I I don't even remember the last time I went on a hunt
You know a hunt means means nothing else exists but getting a
Good-looking girl meaning like a seven
Plus seven out of ten plus really good-looking girl, right
Uh, but with enough slutty you don't want her to be a slut for some reason that to the turn off
But that night she's having a slutty night. That's what you want where I know this doesn't make sense to a lot of you guys but um